I did a bad, maybe even horrible, thing, but I am NOT a horrible person. I found out who I was and I had to hurt someone I truly cared about in the process. I am now having to deal with accepting myself, coming out to my family and friends, and understanding that “normal” for me has changed. However, in spite of this I am happy. I have found an amazing woman who loves me and treats me better than anyone ever has. Better than you ever did. While you’re out calling me a horrible person, remember that I can barely remember you ever treating me the way that you should have- the way I tried to treat you. Say whatever bad thing you want about me, it does not change the fact that I am not a bad and horrible person, in fact, it make you the man who can’t let go, accept what happened between us, and move on.